No matter how old I am, or how old they are, Samuel, Solomon & Emma will always be my little ones! When they were younger (and sometimes not so young), we played this game - Why does Daddy love you?
It would typically go like this:
Every now and then, I will still play that game with my children. And although at 20, 18, and 13, they all get to the answer a little sooner, I believe they know the reason we played that game - to remind them that they have an earthly father and a Heavenly Father who will always love them because they are His.

It would typically go like this:
Dad to kids: "Why does Daddy love you?"
Kids: "Because I'm cute?"
Dad: "That's true, but not really why. Try again."
Kids: "Because I'm good?"
Dad: "That's sometimes true, but not really why. Guess again."
(At this point, when they were all really young, they would keep guessing for as long as I had patience to answer their guesses (like "'Cause I'm good at football/basketball/volleyball/music?""'Cause I keep my room clean/brush my teeth/shower, etc?" - and when they got older, and knew our game, they would play me for my patience), but as I would finally draw them to the answer I wanted them to say and believe, it would conclude like this.)Kids: "Because I'm cute?"
Dad: "That's true, but not really why. Try again."
Kids: "Because I'm good?"
Dad: "That's sometimes true, but not really why. Guess again."
Dad: "Those are all really great reasons to love you, but what is the one real reason I love you?
Kids: "Because I'm your son/daughter!"
Dad: "That's right!! And will you always be my son/daughter?"
Kids: "Yes"
Dad: "That's right!! And will you always be my son/daughter?"
Kids: "Yes"
Dad: "Then I will always love you!"
It was a game that hopefully spoke to their hearts of their father's love for his children. It also reminded us of the Father's love for His children not based on what we do or say (although we never cease to want to please our Father), but because of Christ's calling on our lives as "fellow heirs with Jesus" and part of God's family - He will always love us, for we are His and He is ours!
Every now and then, I will still play that game with my children. And although at 20, 18, and 13, they all get to the answer a little sooner, I believe they know the reason we played that game - to remind them that they have an earthly father and a Heavenly Father who will always love them because they are His.


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